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Doing everything? Easy. Finishing it? No.

  • Writer: Lara Coutinho
    Lara Coutinho
  • Apr 19
  • 5 min read

Anyone who enters my room and observes me...


I have multiple windows open on my computer, three different art projects halfway through, and a sheet with an extensive to-do list on the table, six of which I consider urgent, but none coincide with what I’m doing at the moment.


I realised I spent the last half hour on my phone comparing clothespins (those simple wooden ones) and I’m tempted to buy a pack.


I pause for a moment.


I keep thinking about how easy it has become to start things.

You can learn anything now. Drawing, painting, embroidering, sketching, writing, photography – there’s no shortage of ways to get started. The tutorials are endless. Courses are everywhere. Inspiration is constant.

And most people I know (myself included) have no trouble getting started.

We struggle with finishing them.


The modern creative pattern that nobody talks about.

It often looks like this:

  • You start a sketchbook.

  • You start a course.

  • You try a new technique.

  • You collect references.

  • You gather tools.


For a while, it seems productive. You’re learning. You’re exploring. You’re “working on it.” But then something subtle happens. You move on. Not because you’re finished.


But because something new has emerged.

A new idea. A new method. A new direction.


And the old thing remains unfinished. Not dramatically abandoned. Just… left open.


Doing everything is easy. Finishing, not so much.


This is what I keep coming back to.


Most people I know don’t lack creativity. They’re overwhelmed with it. Too many interests. Too many tools. Too many directions. And so the pattern becomes:

Start → explore → lose structure → start something new.

And nothing is ever fully completed. No finished sketchbook. No consistent practice. No accumulated work.


Just fragments.


The silent cost of never finishing.


At first, it doesn’t seem like a problem. You’re learning. You’re experimenting. But, over time, something changes. You start to feel like someone who:

  • always starts things

  • rarely finishes them

  • never actually gets anywhere.


And I think that’s where the real frustration lies. Not for lack of skill. But for lack of continuity. Because finishing something—really finishing it—changes how you see yourself.


It creates evidence. “I can persist in something.”


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The problem isn’t discipline. It’s decision overload.


I started to realise something more behind it all. It’s not that people can’t stick with things. It’s that each session demands too many decisions.


What should I draw? What tools should I use? What style should I use? Should it be simple or detailed? Is it worth taking up the page?


These questions seem small. But they accumulate. And when everything is a decision, nothing becomes practical. It becomes a series of restarts.


So I started designing differently.


Instead of trying to “fix the consistency,” I started asking a different question:

  • What if the problem isn’t the effort, but the complexity?

  • What if the reason we don’t finish things is because we keep reopening the system every time we come back to it?


So I tried removing the decisions instead. Not in a symbolic way. In a practical way.


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I put down my phone and decided to buy my wooden clothespins at the supermarket. It’s a small, old-fashioned place, so there’ll only be one option.


I go back to my washing machine and quickly take care of my clothes, adapting to the minor inconvenience of not having a proper way to hang them. Nothing special.


I close the computer. I organise my desk, quickly putting my art supplies away inside the cupboard.


I go back to my open notebook with the to-do list and observe... one of them is “plan a sketchbook drawing course”. And why not, starting here, now?


This is how I began to shape a daily drawing practice that could actually be finished—not endlessly restarted.


The Structure of the First Week


Is not about improvement. It is about removing friction.


  1. Reduce everything immediately. You choose:

  2. a sketchbook

  3. one or two tools

  4. a very limited palette (maximum 2 to 3 colours)

  5. That’s it. No expansion. No optional extras.


Not because variety is bad. But because too much choice prevents repetition.


2. Only one theme

During the first week, everything stays within a general category:

Natural objects. Leaves. Stones. Branches. Simple shapes.

Not because this is the “correct” theme. But because it eliminates another layer of decision-making.


3. Same format every day

Each session follows the same rhythm:

arrive → observe → draw (10–15 minutes) → stop

No variation in structure. Only variation in attention.


4. Daily Restriction Instead of a New Idea

Instead of asking “what should I draw today?”, each day has a small restriction:

  • repeat the same object

  • change only the scale

  • change only the drawing technique

  • draw from memory

  • return to observation

The goal is not novelty. The goal is continuity within repetition.


What this does differently


At first, it feels almost too simple.


That’s the resistance point for most people. We are used to equating value with complexity.

But something interesting happens when you remove decisions: You stop restarting. And when you stop restarting, something else begins to appear: A sense of progression that doesn’t depend on motivation.


Just repetition over time.


The shift I kept noticing


After a few days, something subtle changes.

You stop negotiating with yourself. You don’t ask “what should I do today?”

You just begin. And that’s the point where a practice actually starts to form. Not when it feels exciting.


But when it becomes easy to continue.


Why I’m writing this now


Because I think a lot of people are already learning more than enough.

They are taking courses. Trying techniques. Collecting ideas. But they are not finishing things. Not because they lack talent.

But because they lack a structure that allows repetition to happen without friction. So I’ve been turning this into something more structured.


A simple 4-week practice built around:

  • fewer decisions

  • repetition over novelty

  • small daily actions

  • continuity instead of constant restarting


Not as a system to optimise output.

But as a way to finally finish something you started.


If this resonates


I’ll be sharing more about the full version of this practice soon. But even before that, you might notice something if you try this yourself:


Before your next creative session, reduce the number of decisions you allow yourself to make.


Not everything. Just enough to notice what changes.

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